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Her Oak Tree, Her Strength Interactive Digital Guidebook

You love your wife, but sometimes you feel like you are walking on eggshells, not knowing what might upset her. This tool is ​INVALUABLE and shared from a man who understands what you are going through and has come out on the other side, loving ​and supporting my wife as she heals daily from the effects of her past trauma. And it get easier, especially if you implement the ​simple suggestions in this guide. Choose one topic a day. Or work on one a week. You will notice a difference. Plus you'll love the quick video tips that come with each topic.  

$49.00 USD

The Husband's Alphabet E-Book

In "The Husband's Alphabet: Be Her Oak Tree," Tom Dau offers a heartfelt and practical guide for husbands seeking to deepen their connection with their partners. Through an innovative alphabetical approach, each chapter explores essential qualities and actions that can strengthen your marriage. From "A" for Always to "Z" for Zeal, Tom shares actionable strategies to help you become the steadfast support your wife needs. This book emphasizes the importance of being a reliable presence—like an oak tree—providing strength, shelter, and stability in the ever-changing landscape of life and love. Perfect for newlyweds and long-term couples alike, "The Husband's Alphabet" is a roadmap to nurturing a fulfilling, resilient partnership. Discover how to cultivate a loving environment where both you and your wife can flourish together. Embrace the journey of growth and connection—be her oak tree!

$2.99 USD

Single Coaching Session

60 min session with Vicki or Tom. Feel seen and heard.  Get relief and go away with action steps.

$120.00 USD

3 Session Coaching Package

Experience immediate relief and insights while working with Vicki or Tom for a 60 minute session.  You have 6 months to use your 3 sessions.  

$300.00 USD

For Both of You

Communication and Connection Workshop November 15, 2025

  Led by Tom and Vicki Dau, a married couple who have overcome numerous hurdles using the techniques they'll be teaching you, this workshop is a testament to the power of effective communication and deep connection. They're excited to share their insights and experiences with you. It is our intention that by the end of the workshop, you will have learned guidelines for communication. Your toolbox will be loaded with tips and techniques to effectively make decisions and problem solve. You will have an enhanced understanding of how you feel and receive love. And you will be confident to work with each other to handle anything that comes up as you are world class.

$350.00 USD

The Marriage Alphabet E-Book

In "The Marriage Alphabet," Tom and Vicki Dau invite you to explore the essential elements of a thriving partnership through a simple yet profound alphabetical framework. Each page reveals a unique letter, representing a vital concept—from "A" for Attitude to "Z" for Zeal—that can strengthen your marriage and deepen your connection. Drawing on their own experiences and insights, Tom and Vicki share practical wisdom that highlight the beauty and complexity of married life. This book serves as a valuable resource for couples at any stage of their journey, offering actionable strategies to foster communication, understanding, and love. With its accessible approach, "The Marriage Alphabet" encourages you to reflect on your relationship and embrace the transformative power of intentionality. Whether you’re seeking to navigate challenges or simply enrich your bond, this guide is a heartfelt reminder that a strong marriage is built on love, effort, and mutual growth. Discover how each letter can inspire you to create a lasting, meaningful partnership!

$2.99 USD

Tidbits from Tom and Vicki Card Deck

  Introducing a transformative card deck, meticulously crafted over a decade and tens of thousands of dollars in teachings. This collection distills the most vital lessons we wish we had known earlier in our journeys. Each of the 49 cards showcases a unique piece of Vicki's artwork, beautifully merging inspiration with wisdom. Dive into this visual and educational experience to gain insights that can shape your path forward.

$39 Includes shipping within the contiguous U.S.

For Her

Empowering Him to Empower You- Interactive Digital Guidebook

Relationships can be challenging. Add the nuances of past sexual abuse and it can feel hopeless at times. And sometimes we might tell ourselves it might be easier to be alone. But, really, is it? Wouldn't you love someone you can depend on no matter what? Someone who has your back, who is strong and who you can trust?  It is possible! With just a few skills to implement and practice with your husband. I have compiled the tried and true things that ​my husband and I have figured out over 25 years that helped us create a supportive, nurturing relationship.

$49.00 USD

The Wife's Alphabet E-Book

In "The Wife's Alphabet: It's Worth the Effort," Vicki Dau presents a transformative guide for wives who seek to enhance their relationships and nurture their own personal growth. With a straightforward alphabetical format, each chapter delves into essential traits and actions—from "A" for Attitude to "Z" for Zero—that can empower you and elevate your marriage. Vicki encourages women to embrace the challenges of partnership with courage and commitment. This book highlights the importance of effort in love, showing how small, intentional actions can lead to profound changes in your relationship. Whether you’re newly married or have been together for years, "The Wife's Alphabet" serves as an inspiring roadmap for building a thriving, supportive partnership. Discover how investing in yourself and your marriage is not only worthwhile but can lead to a deeper, more fulfilling connection with your spouse. Join Vicki on this journey and see how the effort you put in can truly transform your love story!

$2.99 USD

Single Coaching Session

60 min session with Vicki or Tom. Feel seen and heard.  Get relief and go away with action steps.

$120.00 USD

3 Session Coaching Package

Experience immediate relief and insights while working with Vicki or Tom for a 60 minute session.  You have 6 months to use your 3 sessions.  

$300.00 USD